Women fall for bad boys purportedly because they want to be that special one who changes them.

I have failed to tap into the female psyche this time because I find that whacked. It might be that I haven't spent enough time hanging out with players/gangstas to fall for them, but they few times I did, I found them repulsive. There are diamonds in the rough, sure, but most of them are probably just graphite.

To me, the gems are the ones who have a good head on their shoulders despite having a huge ego that makes them do stupid things. These are not that hard to find- everyone knows someone like that. The tricky part is finding someone who clicks with you. Yes, we're all special in our own right because of our unique blend of idiosyncrasies yada yada, but it could be a long search for the one who appreciates your brand of quirk. Then there are the other uncontrollables.

I don't know what's my point of that last paragraph.

Anyway, I think those aforementioned women are just looking for trouble. It's one thing if I pluck an apple from the tree and find out that a worm's having it's lunch and entirely another if I pick a rotten one off the ground, polish it off and pray that I don't get the runs.